Thursday, December 17, 2009
The little things that have surfaced to the blogging part of my brain also have just seemed very trivial these past few weeks. Now don't get me wrong, I'm sure the very next post after this serious one will be something quite ridiculous, but for now my heart is heavy.
We are in the midst of a church change after Jerry returning to the staff of our old church, but for the past few years we were a part of The Village Church. The Village is lead by an amazing communicator of the gospel, Matt Chandler. He is a young gifted pastor, married to an even younger beautiful wife, and father of 3 precious children. The oldest one whom my daughter absolutely adores.
I won't go into all the details as they can be found on facebook, various blogs, twitter and the like, but I do ask you to pray for Matt and his family. After having a seizure on Thanksgiving day, he was found to have a brain tumor on his right frontal lobe. A good part of it was removed. The pathology report shows it to be malignant.
Oh how my heart aches for this family. My husband has been struck hard by it too. The Lord is sovereign. Nothing reaches His people that hasn't first passed through his hand. The Chandlers have been steadfast and nothing but a pure ray of wholesome testimony through this trial. But we still weep with them.
Please join me in praying for them as they visit with two physicians today seeking treatment options.
Perhaps you are one of the 40,000+ people that have joined the "Praying for Matt Chandler" page on Facebook, or maybe you have no clue who this gifted man is. You can click this link to watch a short video of him taped right before his surgery. I guarantee you will be challenged and encouraged.
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
I don't have the heart to tell her that it won't be sticking around.
Hoping to never forget the look on her face or her first comment, "Thank you GOD, Thank you GOD"!
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Hubby got a new job!!! We are going back to our old church where he will be Director of World Missions again. So thankful for this opportunity on so many levels...more on that later.
We decided to stay here and commute for a while.
The Lord changed our hearts on that...although we LOVE the community we live in, how can we effectively serve in a church 45-60 minutes away?
We decide to list our house.
Our realtor recommends we get our foundation repaired.
Foundation repair happens. What a mess!
Contractor comes to make repairs from said foundation repair.
We paint, clean, organize and reorganize until we are past tuckered out.
The house actually listed late last Thursday afternoon.
Several showings over the weekend.
We received an offer Sunday, we countered Sunday night, and they accepted our offer Monday morning.
Inspection happened yesterday.
A few things I left out: Meeting with countless foundation companies to make a decision regarding that, meeting with countless contractors to make a decision regarding repairs, spending countless hours on realtor.com to make a decision regarding where we are going to live, researching/visiting countless private schools to make a decision regarding our girls' education in the city.
Do you see the theme here?
We are spending countless hours making decisions. Whew! I am exhausted yet extremely THANKFUL. None of these decisions would be necessary had the Lord not provided my husband with an amazing job opportunity and then a great offer on our house within 3-4 days of being listed.
Oh yeah, and I need to mention that during all of this, my precious father-in-law had major open heart surgery. Praise the Lord that he is doing WONDERFUL! Though not as important, Jerry also joined and started playing for 2 indoor soccer teams during this time as well as finished coaching his first season of U5 girls soccer.
Anyway, assuming that the inspection (we're still waiting to hear) and the appraisal go well, the couple buying our house wants to close and move in on 12/18!!!!
Yikes! Because of Jerry's job change we can't close on a new house until 12/31. Double yikes! That probably wouldn't be too much of an issue if we actually knew what part of the city we wanted to live in and had a house picked out. My mom's guest rooms are ready for our hopefully only 14 day homeless stint.
Working with our awesome realtor Friday.
I anticipate more countless hours of decision making on the horizon. Honestly THANKFUL for it though.
What are you thankful for?
HAVE A WONDERFUL THANKSGIVING!
Monday, November 16, 2009
BUN CONTEST FOR NOVEMBER!!!!
Starts Monday Nov 2nd until Thursday Nov 19th!!! Winner announced when we return from Thanksgiving break.* Jazz, Ballet, Technique, and Drill Team classes* A "bun" is defined as having the hair secured (not swinging freely) and off the neck.* French braids tucked under, two buns, and other secured hairstyles are fine, too.*
Snoods, rubber bun formers, and the bun formers that resemble "slap bracelets" are all acceptable (and encouraged!) These can be purchased at drug stores, some grocery stores, and at Spotlight dancewear - all in with the barrettes and hair things.* Short hair - should be secured as much as possible. Ponytail can be "clipped down" with barrettes or claw clips. Headbands or barrettes to keep the hair out of the face are great.
Here is how it will work: The teacher, studio asst director or owner (during evening hours, most often the owner) will "score" each bun for a total class score. Scoring is done like this:- Hair up as request and secured of the neck (not swinging) - 10 pts.- Exceptionally good (no "pull throughs," tendrils hanging on the side, etc) - addtl 10 pts.- Each student can earn as much as 20 pts.- Class Score is determined by totaling the scores and dividing by the number of students present in the class.- A class bonus of 5 pts (before dividing) may be added if a class ALL has exceptional buns! :-)
What will the winning class get?! An ice cream (or equivalent if allergies) party to be held in the staff breakroom. (Party will be held after class one night in December and for those who have additional classes, we will extend the party after your last class as well!!!!)
May the BEST BUNS win!
I think I am developing an allergy to buns! It actually has been brewing for a while...ever since I enrolled in Ballet/Tap 101 for hair styling deficient mommies.
Is it bad that I giggled as the instructor fiddled unsuccessfully with Lily's hair today, trying to fix the misshapen bun upon her head, before the "bun checker" came in?
I didn't think so.
I'm pretty sure her class will not be winning the ice cream party. Never fear though...mommy knows that the Braum's drive-thru is on our way home after class.
We'll ask for double scoops as we pretend that our other buns are in good shape too.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
This is what Lily's trash can looked like tonight.
Sad. I know.
I've honestly convinced myself that waking up to deal with tummy aches will be easier than candy rationing.
I better get a head start on sleep! Be sure to tell me how you handle the halloween candy at your house!
Thursday, November 5, 2009
When daddy isn't around, dinner is usually consists of something easy...or even easier...a trip out. I just don't know what it is about Boston Market and the comments it produces from Lily...do you remember this incident?
At least last night she had the courtesy to talk in a lower voice, and the subject was out of earshot.
Lily: Mommy. Mommy. Why does that lady over there have such big boobies?
Me: What lady?
Lily: The one over there...in the black shirt.
Me: Oh. Wow. (After determining it wasn't a plastic surgery case, I decided to respond.) Well, honey...God makes different people in different sizes.
Lily: Oh. So He gave her big boobs and you a big butt.
Me: Um, yeah. Something like that.
Given the apparent heart issues in the family, we were considering a cardiac diet. After that conversation, it seems we need to combine it with the derriere diet as well.
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Whatever we call it, I just hope it spooked my lack of desire to blog away. Maybe I'll be a blogging saint from now on, or at least a reformed blogger? There's always hope.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Monday, October 19, 2009
The sun was shining for the first time in days...as evidenced by our squinting.
The pumpkins beckoned.
It was too muddy for choo-choo rides and hay rides, so you'll be seeing very similar pictures in about a week when we return.
Consider yourself warned.
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Cursive---it is so much faster!
I think I'm a realist, but my hubby would say I'm a dreamer.
The Sixth Sense comes to mind, but I'm sure there are far worse ones.
When our pediatrician told us we needed to take 3 day old Jade back to the children's hospital to undergo testing. I have never cried tears like that before or since.
I pride myself on being a good speller...runner-up in the 5th grade spelling bee... ;) so if there is a word that trips me up I work on getting it right. All that being said, you'll know that I was absolutely mortified to realize that I had misspelled "pavilion" on all of Lily's Circus party invitations. Who knew it only had one "l", not two? Not me apparently.
Singing. Good thing my kids don't care!
A little bit of both...but if I'm going to get recharged around people, they have to be adult people.
Yes, twice that I can think of.
Definitely apple...the only things I like related to pumpkins are roasted pumpkin seeds and Starbucks Pumpkin Spice Lattes.
Zero. I subscribed to Cooking Light, Parents, and Cookie each for a couple of years...I'm back logged with so many unread issues that I'll never need to subscribe again. Its just the same stuff over and over again.
That I am a much nicer person when I go to bed before midnight. Didn't happen last night...grrr!
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
So, in an effort to not spend as much on movies as I did on Tamiflu ($50 for her, cough, $50 for Jade, cough cough), I have been all about the $.99 rentals at Blockbuster.
I mean seriously, you can't beat 90 minutes of restful entertainment for $.99.
Oh wait! You can beat that...with these FREE Redbox rental codes I came across.
Only at Walgreens: DVDATWAG
Ones I haven't tried yet, but are supposed to work anywhere: 9HB6MP22 and BREAKROOM.
I tried the top two over the weekend and they both worked. There is a button on the bottom lefthand corner of the screen to enter a promotional code even before you start selecting movies.
The trick is to bring several debit or credit cards with you...I brought both my debit card as well as my husbands because you can use each promo code once per card.
Visit www.redbox.com to get even more free rental codes. You can have promotional codes texted to your cell phones and e-mailed to all of your e-mail accounts as well.
They of course have a map of Redbox locations at www.redbox.com as well.
We are finally feeling healthy and the sun is even supposed to come out tomorrow...so we'll pass the movie torch on to you...not that I'm wishing the piggy flu or rain on ya, but it seems like both are inevitable.
Free movies work for me! To see what's working for others, visit Works For Me Wednesday at We Are THAT Family.
Boston Market is doing their Kids Eat Free program a bit differently though. And if your kids love that place as much as mine do and you want an inexpensive healthy meal without lighting your stove...you best take notice.
What is different about it?
It is ALL day EVERY day for starters. Your kids do have to be present, but securely strapped in their carseats at the drive-thru window COUNTS! And TWO kids can eat free for every ONE adult that spends $6.
For larger families, they are offering 4 free kids meals with the purchase of a family meal.
Another Boston Market tip (can you tell we have one right down the street?), if your kids don't like the cornbread, they'll substitute it for another side item of their choice. My kids cannot get enough of their mac-n-cheese or sweet potato casserole.
It ends October 31st...which means I see about 18 more $6 meals in my family's future.
FREE food and not having to cook works for me! To see what is working for others this week, head over to Works For Me Wednesday at We Are THAT Family.
Jade and Lily want to play
Come again another day.
Rain Rain Go Away
Our yard is mush, more like a bay
Can't you please just stay away?
Rain Rain Go Away
Our moods have turned to yucky grey
We just don't like feeling this way.
Rain Rain Go Away
Our locks have gone all astray
Please send us just one good hair day.
Rain Rain Go Away
Our umbrellas have been out to stay,
but really just want to be put far away.
Rain Rain Go Away
We've got soccer games to play
We want to go and shout Hooray!
You know it has been raining too much when you open the front door and your 2 year old shouts, "Mama, its NOT raining!"
But then you have to tell her, "Well, that's because it just did" or "Just wait, it is going to in a bit!"
Pretty sure Lily's soccer game will be cancelled tonight...unless we can secure enough kayaks for all the players. That brings the total up to 3 games played and 3 rained out.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Lily wanted to be a generic pink princess for Halloween. The costume she picked out was $40 in a magazine. Yeah right. I was so not going to spend that on something she'd wear once or twice.
Jade didn't have any idea what she wanted to be. Let's face it, Halloween 2007 she was a 4 month old obligatory pumpkin, and then on the actual day of Halloween 2008, she had her ear tube/adenoid surgery...so she really doesn't have any good Halloween memories yet. Last year the color was yellow (Belle and a duck) , so the least I could do was let the girl be pink!
We strolled the aisles of Once Upon a Child and Lily found the costume from the magazine (not really, but she thought it was) and it was a whopping $6.50. Jade came across Piglet and nearly jumped out of her skin wanting to put it on. No nudging from us. The whole store heard and felt her excitement. Piglet cost us $8.50. I 've still got to find some accessories, but I figure since I've only spent $15 on the costumes that there is room in the budget for those.
They've been playing dress up in them alot lately, though they have to stay upstairs, away from the kittens' claws. I snapped this to give you a little preview of the pink princess and the piglet. Man I love these girls.
Now mommy and daddy have to figure out a costume idea for a couples dress up party that we are going to. Jerry and I have completely different thoughts on this sort of thing...completely different. He said something about dressing up as a current event. Huh? Blank stare. Eye roll.
Any ideas for us?
I just don't make healthy food decisions while dodging the stocker's pallets in the wee morning hours. But boy was my hubby's mouth watering as he helped me unload the groceries at one in the morning!
Tonight was chicken fried steak, corn on the cob and fried okra.
The pot on the back left was getting ready for some country gravy. If I had been smart I would have used my electric skillet for the steaks and used that burner for some mashed potatoes.
I figure the only way to conquer the swine flu is to threaten it with a heart attack.
Friday, October 9, 2009
I took Lily to one of the 5 or 6 "urgent" care centers that we have around town...this one chosen because we could check in ahead of time and they didn't have a long wait. "Come in at 8:30 and we'll be able to see her right away," they said. Then they called me at 8:15 letting me know they were actually ready for her then. Great, I thought...we'll be on Tamiflu in no time. Of course when we got there, we ended up waiting for over an hour in a room full of feverish coughing people. Ugh.
One very scary nose swab later, she was diagnosed with H1N1 Type A Flu. She and the rest of the town I'm pretty sure... 1/3 of her preschool class, along with the teacher, included.
They prescribed Tamiflu for her and Relenza for me, only after I paid an additional copay for myself...which seemed ridiculous. Nothing prescribed for Jerry and Jade. Guess they are just sitting ducks...or sitting pigs, rather.
I'm pretty sure one call to our pediatrician will have that rectified though.
Has the swine flu made you whine yet?
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Join up at 2nd Cup of Coffee...and let me know if you do, I'd love to stop by and read your Random Dozen.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Then there is the whole issue of laundry. As if anyone really enjoys laundry anyway, having to haul it up and down the stairs brings my loathe of laundry to a new level. Our master closet is right over our laundry room. We've toyed with the idea of putting in a laundry shoot, but Jerry is right, what we really need is a dumbwaiter.
In addition to those issues of having a two-story home, I also find it harder to keep things in the right place. Inevitably, things come down that need to go back up and vice-versa. My favorite is when various pieces of a toy or game get separated during the girls' travels. So fun.
Originally, our stairs became piled with everything that needed to go back up and there was always a little pile at the top of things that needed to come down. Seemed simple enough...when you pass by one of those piles, TAKE IT WITH YOU. But we all know that in a busy and often rushed life, that just doesn't always (ever!) happen.
When Kristen asked her readers to share their cleaning tips, my hubby's "bin plan" came to mind. He got smart and bought a large bin that we keep downstairs. As we pick up or find misplaced items that need to go upstairs, we just put them in that bin. When it gets full (or we get sick of digging through it), we haul it upstairs to our bedroom. In our bedroom we have 3 smaller bins. We then divide the contents of the large bin into the smaller bins...one for each of the girls' rooms and the playroom. Then each girl puts their stuff back in their room and we tackle the playroom together. If they are asleep, we just set the bin outside their door.
It works for us. Although admittedly, the downstairs bin is currently full and my stairs are piled with things. *sigh*
To see what is working for other people, visit WFMW (Works For Me Wednesday) at We Are THAT Family.
Monday, October 5, 2009
Until last week, it wasn't something I gave much thought to...other than giving a gentle correction from time to time. Now I'm seeing raised eyebrows and fearing being accused of cultural insensitivity.
Lily must be learning how to count in Spanish at preschool. Now she is aware of language and the fact that there is more than just our own.
The problem is that she for the longest time kept thinking that we spoke Spanish and everyone else spoke English. Somehow in trying to correct that, all was lost.
Now any other language that is foreign to her is simply called "uno, dos, tres".
The other evening we went for dinner at a Japanese hibachi place and later followed it with a trip to the Dollar Tree...extremes, I know.
Our table chef was really good at interacting with Lily, but between the noise of the restaurant and his thick accent, she could not understand him. During one interaction she was left puzzled and unsure of what he had said. And then in the most accusatory manner, she asks him, "Are you speaking in Uno, Dos, Tres?" Thankfully he didn't hear her and no knives were accidentally tossed in our direction.
Later at the Dollar Tree, there was another language incident. There was a family behind us in line that was speaking neither Spanish nor Japanese. I didn't realize that Lily was listening intently to their conversation. When out of the blue I hear, "I CAN'T understand a word you are saying! Are you speaking UNO, DOS, TRES?!?", again in an accusatory manner.
Oh my. Thankfully, Jerry whisked her away quickly and our minivan became a cultural sensitivity classroom for the ride home.
She is one that speaks her mind...and my mom is always quick to remind me that I did the same thing at her age (and still do!), so I'm sure many more embarrassing payback moments are in store for me. At least I've already got the bald man situation under my belt.
If you want to read about other things kids have been saying this week, head over to Tiny Talk Tuesday at Not Before 7.
Sunday, October 4, 2009
I woke up the morning of the party in a stressed out state. Apologizing to my husband for getting out of control on yet another birthday party. Had I spent too much money? Invited too many people? Will the guests not feel special because they were one of many? Will parents think it was a gift ploy?
If they only knew Lily. Well, they do. So they should know that she is the social butterfly type and totally keeps up with all her pals...even by phone. Not kidding. Have you ever heard one side of a phone conversation between 4 year olds? Punctuated with occasional "I love yous"? It is just about the sweetest thing ever.
Anyway, my amazingly calm natured hubby squelched my 6AM, 11 hours to party time stress with one question. "Are the kids going to have fun?"
"Okay, then...the parents will too and it will be a great party."
I love that man. He was right. It was a blast...although having back to back parties at a rented pavilion can be a bit crazy when it only gives you 15 minutes to set up.
We were heading towards a ballerina theme, but after our box seat circus adventure, we decided on that...which was much more friendly toward all of her little boy friends.
We served grilled hot dogs, popcorn, cracker jacks and animal crackers. The kids had their faces painted (by a dear friend who stepped in when Lily's NeNe came down with the flu!), had balloons made, and played on an amazing wooden play structure.
Jerry didn't think we'd be able to get them off the park...but one call of "cupcakes!" and they all came running.
I love my kids and love doing parties for them, but by the time this one was done (our seventh one!) I had decided we're going to tone them down in the future. I mentioned this to Lily and she was not going for it.
You'd think with 25 friends there, she'd be overwhelmed. Instead she was completely exhilarated. The next day she asked me by name why 3 particular little friends had not been at her party. I was shocked...how could she have even noticed in all the chaos?!?
Friends, I think I've created a monster. Just in time for Halloween, too.